How do you be a man?

In a previous question I revealed my affinity for gourmet food and clical music. This revelation was met with answers that in so many words accused me of being overly feminine. So now I must ask. How does a “man” behave? It seems that people rely to heavily on outward appearances. So many of these so-called men are at best inept when it comes to procuring a confident female. Meanwhile I date women who if not for their dedication to intellectual pursuits would fit quite handsomely in Hollywood. It also seems most of the “men” would rather retreat than face a threat. It is my opinion that the modern male is mostly flash and no substance. Admittedly I am perturbed by the fact that many women have bought into the outwardly masculine, internally feminized man. They may advertise their so-called masculinity but their true identity is in question. I on the other hand do not were my on my sleeve, I much prefer Prada. So for someone like me, tell me how to go about suppressing my manners and intellect so I can attract you, the brainwashed woman?